One man with Venus in Capricorn I knew, would buy his girlfriend beautiful clothes, jewelry and perfume but when she asked for a pair of ripped jeans she liked- he would not but them- for him she will be downgrading her looks and he would not be party to that.

Unless, this is something you consider being a down grade.ДЇor example, if the person you love asks for something you think is ugly, unworthy or simply will make them appear вЂњlowerвЂќ in some way. You are fine with being asked to do about anything- you will not shy away from any challenge. You enjoy knowing you can put in efforts (work) to take your partner to their highest point. Other than that, you are a warm lover who likes to take care of another person. Usually, it can be something small but it still means a lot to you. It is better you speak the goal out loud and find ways to work towards it together. This is unfortunate, as you might become cold towards a perfectly great partner. If a relationship is good but it stays the same for years? You will feel you have failed somehow. This goal can be anything you decide but you must see it is moving to a higher point over time. You need to know that love is about climbing up somewhere towards a goal.

Every relationship you have is about gradually getting better, stronger and more refined. It is made out of small efforts, commitments and most importantly growth. This is true to Venus in Capricorn in that no matter how freedom loving the rest of the chart might seem- at some point they will simply want to settle down.ДЇor you love is not a flashy thing, it is not made of huge promises or lavish luxuries. After all the wild years she really wants that traditional marriage. Take Miley Cyrus as an example- on and off again with one serious boyfriend she is now engaged to. They do have an inner ideal of a traditional, marriage or at the very least a long lasting partnership that is conventional enough. This is ironic considering they only want that type of relationship. Especially when young, Venus in Capricorn can avoid dating or serious relationships altogether. The problem is, that at times it might be too easy to fall into a pattern of avoidance, of being single or staying a polite distance from others. You know you canвЂ™t have it any other way, and truthfully why should you? This might seem a bit cold to the outside perspective, but really it is your way to create love in life. If you feel the other person is not going to put in any effort or comply to the gradual steps in the relationship- you simply walk away, unattached. At the same time you are just as good avoiding any connections if they are deemed unworthy to you. You are very good at building a long-lasting relationship, and most of your connections are long lasting. You canвЂ™t fully give or take warm sensuality, love or even friendship without these little efforts to lead you there. The key word is gradual, persistent and stable effort. This is also true about what you expect from others- they must go through gradual stages of effort to win your heart. As a result, as a grown up you have very high standards for what you need to do before you open yourself to love. In other words- love was hard work, not an easy flow you could just enjoy. You were probably one of these kids who had to do something to receive affection- you had to perform in some way. That is because love for you is something to be earned. If you have Venus in Capricorn it means you have a highly developed love nature. It is very much about how we express our love and joy to the world and what we consider worthy of our attention. The way I like to consider Venus, is its relation to values and beauty in our lives. I kept thinking back to this Venus in Capricorn, to the steady energy of people with this natal Venus. I do not take the fun out of that observation but clearly this does no justice to this placement or to understanding it. A while ago I made a post about his Venus claiming it had bad taste.

January 5 2017